So, if you work full-time he still won't lift a finger around the house? Yeah, I can see how it may end up too much for you. My DH grew up with a dad like that and it has been tough sometimes getting him to pull his weight sometimes; me working a 60-hour week, including some 14-hour days (two jobs), soon made things change. He even does stuff now I'm unemployed, which is good for DS to see, although I do feel a bit guilty that I'm not always the perfect housewife.

Do you want to work a bit more for a short time? Could you find an evening job/work from home job? What do you want, not what does your DH want?