Yeah he pretty much does nothing inside the house, he just doesn't notice things. Like I could leave the bin in plain sight and he would walk past it, laziness who knows but god it can be irritating. He'll mow and wash the car but if he drags dirt through the house, that's my problem I also remember being heavily pregnant with DS and having to do grocery shopping on my own because he was "tired"

I might still ask work if they can find something for me for Monday and Tuesday - just for a bit of extra cash but I guess it would depend on how often they needed it, ie. maybe an extra 2 days a fortnight might work the trick. Working or a project means you bill the customer and they can be strict at times on what is/isn't allowed.

Haha! Tell me about it Chody! I tried denying things eherm but that didn't seem to work and then I tried the opposite, and that didn't seem to work either, he got suspicious!