thanks emc2 - I thought they were all no, but he is being so damn convincing and I just wanted to make sure.

I am planning on seeing my social worker Monday afternoon (hopefully she can fit me in) and seeing what she might recommend, or at least talking through everything with her. I find that she is a good source of the 'diary' of when I hear from him, as I'm there in her office the next morning/afternoon having anxiety/panic attacks and crying my eyes out. Lol.

I have told him numerous times not to contact me, but he keeps doing it.