Firstly . I am so sorry you are being put through this. How terrible he is making your pg for you.

I can't give you any advice I'm sorry but I'm hoping one of the lovely girls on BB will be out to help you out. Is there legal aid near you or can you ask your social worker to look into it for you? The other thing is he can't be at the birth if he doesn't know it's happening can he?? Can you just not tell him when you go into labour?

Best of luck and I hope you get to experience your birth just the way you want.