After 2 natural deliveries and 1 c section I am definately trying for a vbac this time. Afterall, it wil be alittle hard for them to do a section at home
If there is no real medical reason for you not to have a natural delivery then thats the way I would be going. Recovery as you already know is so much harder and longer on your body and with another child to look after you really don't need the extra hassle either.

Take care
Trish