Personally Michelle, next time around I will be having a caesar. Mind you, the OB did say to me that given what transpired during Jacob's birth and taking into account the fact that he didn't properly engage (and other factors) that it is possible that I may end up having an emergency caesar anyway if I were to try for a VBAC. That said, it's always possible that it WOULDN'T happen and I could have a normal delivery, but there are reasons why it is just as possible why I wouldn't and I really couldn't cope with labouring again just to result in an emergency caesar, so I will be taking on board my OB's advice and having an elective caesar when the time comes.

That's just my thoughts on it.....I just simply couldn't go through all of that again IYKWIM.