Just wanted to pop in and say I completely understand where you are coming from. I'm in the exact same position. In fact I started a very similar thread recently and got some great advice:

https://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums...d-i-am-167838/

I've been doing heaps of research. And not just on VBAC. I've been doing lots of research on CS's and the possible complications. I've also read a lot of VBAC birth stories and also read stories where people have attempted a VBAC and had a rupture. For me it's been about getting the full picture on both options. Because every study you read about VBAC will give you a different risk, from 1 in 100 to 1 in 2000. If you're interested, PM me and I will send you some links that I've bookmarked.

I think ultimately, the best thing you can do is take the pressure off. You don't have to make a decision for at least another 10 weeks or so. See how your pregnancy progresses and when you're getting close to the time make the choice that feels right then and there. Be informed and don't let anyone bully you. At least that's my plan for now HTH