I was in the same position as you when we fell pregnant with DS, at the end of the day I personally knew deep down i would regret it if i didnt try, i wanted more kids and didnt want the c-section unless absolutely nessessary. I was also scared of the labouring only to end up with another emergency ceaser but i figured i had done it once and if it came down to it....I would do it again
Unforunately my vbac attempt was unsuccessful but I have no regrets about trying and so glad i did.

Like others have said read up as much as you can and ask yourself reallly what you want to do.....not what others will think but what YOU think and want. Good luck with whatever you choose