Nothing with dd1 so when I lost it on day 3 after dd2 it was a real shock, for me and df. Tony's parents, great aunt, brother and niece had been over for more than 3 hours then some of tonys friends came over, I had extremely painful engorged breasts and was tired. I burst into tears in the bedroom because I wanted to express and the pump was in the lounge and I didn't want to express in my bedroom (no rational reason I was just hormonal). I had been trying to give tony meaningful looks to get rid of the family.

In the end it was his friend who realised I was upset and came and sat with me and made me feel a lot better. Tony just did not get it, his parents never know when its time to leave. I just wanted it to be quiet so I could relax

To continue the rant they sent tony's niece over to our house the day after I got home from hospital (dd was 2 days old) just because they thought it would be good for her to spend time with a good female role model!! Fair enough but not 48hrs after I had given birth sorry for the whinge still annoys me now