* I had to scream at him from the bathroom when my water broke, he didn't even want to come and see what I screaming about because he was playing XBOX

* he slept, A LOT. The main thing that upset me about this was that he was taking the bed in the labour ward so I couldn't lay down and rest.

* He got annoyed me when I was crying from the pain (read: fear of the pain)

* He didn't really comfort me, though I think he just felt lost and tired, I don't think it was intentional

* I wanted him to be next to me as I gave birth but instead he watched DD come out (which I'd specifically asked him not to do). I couldn't tell him not to as I was too busy pushing.

* He let the midwives lead him away to talk to my (upset) mother about what was happening while I was screaming, crying and begging him not to leave me. (I blame the midwives more for that one to be honest).

I hate thinking about the dissapointing aspects of my labour, of which there were many