With My first When the labour started i was 3 weeks over due... I was having pains (but had BH since 32 weeks) DP was saying its labour . everyone told me when ur in labour you'll know... I didnt think it was... after i scrubbed the shower out i decided to lay down and after an hour he was like "your pains there 5 mins apart.. I never bothered to time them as i though it was just BH...

During the labour he kept asking me "are you alright" repeatedly By the 20th time (poor DP0 i yelled back "no i'm not freakin alright, i'm trying to push out a watermelon from my vajay jay" Apart from that he didnt do much else except stand there white as a ghost and trying to give me a smile... (god love him... his terrified face made me feel scared *****less)

With DD i was induced and he kept saying... Ohh todays the day... like all excited... Worst part was i was terrified of doing it again... During the labour i had no pain relief til the last 10-15 mins... During the l;ast 45 mins i was yelling at him for just sitting there with the same terrified look, telling him to "freakin help me" and "why arent you helping me"

All in all my DP wasnt much help at all, but then again what could he have done to help me???? if he tried i probably would have told him off for doing something wrong