After a visit to hospital today, talking to a midwife, and telling her that I would like another cs, I feel as though she was trying to sway me into a VBAC. She says that it is safer for Mother and Baby, but I have read otherwise on the internet, thru many sites. It appears to me that VBAC is more of a risk to the baby. I am going nuts, and just want what is best for me and baby, and I dont know what is in fact the best thing to do in my situation.
If I can be guaranteed a safe vaginal birth, which wouldnt end in a cs anyway.....I would be likely to at least consider A VBAC, if in fact it is safer for baby.
My other dilema is...How much strain does natural childbirth place on the mothers heart? As this worries me no end, with my problems!
I just need some good advice, and facts! I really am going out of my mind....I really dont know what to do...I wish I had a crystal ball (Lots of hormones raging today)