Thanks for your replies 

Mumma Bear; Im not sure how to put the thread here, but my story is under “my reasons for elective cs” in this section. (its just way too long!) Most of it being my heart probs, and I do need to speak to my OB about it. I have been told its nothing to worry about (by my GP) but I don’t feel that I could cope with going thru Natural Childbirth, because of it, hence me thinking of CS again.


To be honest, Im not after the sense of achievement/reward. I was quite happy and confident to have another CS, but it seems hard to find someone willing to do it without persuading me into attempting VBAC.
I thought I had done enough research hence deciding on CS which is what I thought was best for me and bubs. But after speaking to the midwives today I now feel like I am just confused as they are wanting me to attempt VBAC!. The Info that I have been given about VBAC vs CS, and what I have read is just making my head spin. I didn’t have this worry with DS…..I wasn’t persuaded either way back then.

Kelly/Sarah; Thanks for your info….I think I’ll just have to continue more reading to set my mind in concrete. Thankfully I have another 7 Months to go!

Christy; I am still passionate about CS as a choice. Esp for those who elect one for personal and med issues. Im not doubting my choice for cs, rather feel I am being “influenced” into doing other wise LOL! I am getting mixed messages, and with this fragile pregnant state of mind…..Its not hard to do! So I guess I am weighing up my options once again
I am looking forward to reading your birth story tho! Wishing you all the best with the birth! 

Gosh, I hope I am making sense. Thanks for listening xxx