Going out of my mind with confusion....

[EllyBoo72]

Unfortunately Ally, there are no gurantees in life. You can not be guranteed a 'safe' any kind of birth be it vaginal, c/s, VBAC, induction etc etc etc. EVERY kind of birth carries with it a risk of complication, some obviously more than others.

Whatever option you want - you will find a plethora of information supporting your choice. You could go around in circles trying to find one overall general consesus - because there is not one. For every for, there is an against. For every against, there is a for. You can get drowned in material. Believe me, I think I've read every study on the internet and in print, medical journals, at the library, and probed every medical professiosnals mind I know. In my previous position I had access to heaps of material and at times I would overwhelm even myself with it all.

Exactly!!! You seem to take thoughts from my mind, but put them into words more clearly than I can!! I am going around in circles at times LOL! I will most likely stick to my gut feeling of CS, and as you say each birth carries risk,even pregnancy in general. I just need to keep a strong positive outlook, and accept whatever comes my way. Thanks xxx (Hope your DH recovers v soon)

Thanks Liz, I havent seen a heart specialist for over 10 yrs....I really do need to speak to my Doc again to get a referral.....as it worries me either way i go really. Its something i should have sorted well b4 falling pregnant again.