Maybe you could ask her why her self esteem is so low she feels the need to "compete" with you about your birth choices!
:yeahthat: My ex friend used to be like that. I had an extremely traumatic c/s for my 1st birth, and rather than supporting me, she told me how lucky I was to have a c/s because vb's were so much worse. I did point out to her that she hadn't actually had a c/s so how would she know? Her reply was that having a needle in your back and a little scar was far less painful that 8 hours of the back labour she had

It was almost like a competition that she was more of a woman and mother because she had a natural birth. *yawns*