1234 ...

thread: Help!

  1. #19
    Registered User
    Add ~clover~ on Facebook

    Sep 2007
    travelling
    9,557

    Darn. Well my labours all started while I was in bed asleep, so maybe go have that rest.

  2. #20
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber & MPM

    Feb 2007
    Melbourne
    5,462

    OK, this is going to be hard, but try not to think about it. Just go about your day as normal, deal with contractions as they come along, but don't pay them much attention until they start to feel more regular and "hurty". My first labour started the same way and I felt like I was going mental! My second labour I just went about doing everyday things (hanging out washing, vaccumming, etc) and practiced my deep breathing every time I got a contraction. I didn't time them, I just went with it. I practiced staying relaxed with every contraction, I thanked God that my baby was on it's way and that He was with me. It was a wonderful experience

    You're doing great and your bub will be here soon .

  3. #21
    Registered User

    Jul 2004
    5,756

    Maybe go have a rest then while you can. Prelabour can be so tourmenting, but its still doing something to get your body ready for active labour.

  4. #22
    Registered User

    Mar 2008
    Sydney
    91

    Are you at home alone? if so have somebody close to you... I found talking and even joking a bit helped...
    my thoughts are with you... hope it will happen quickly!
    xxx

  5. #23
    Registered User
    Add Dansta on Facebook Follow Dansta On Twitter

    Jul 2008
    a slice of paridise, victoria
    2,680

    if things have slowed down, try laying on your left side - i found that during my labour if i thought things where slowing - or just plain forgot not to- it ramped things up again...

  6. #24
    Registered User

    Sep 2007
    Brisbane
    5,729

    back to 8 mins apart, 1 min long, and hurt!

  7. #25
    Registered User
    Add ~clover~ on Facebook

    Sep 2007
    travelling
    9,557

    Go girl!
    Have a hot shower if you need to. Or bath, but not too hot.
    Water feels so good.
    Wow! Bubby's coming! Good luck!

  8. #26
    Registered User

    Jul 2004
    5,756

    If you feel up to it then go for a nice walkto keep them coming.

  9. #27
    Registered User

    Aug 2004
    Hunter Valley, Wine Country, NSW
    3,006

    Oh wow Candice looks like you`ll be meeting your little one soon.

    Drink RLT, my SIL swears by it working.

  10. #28
    Registered User

    Oct 2007
    Brissy
    2,208

    oh i'm soooooo excited!!!!
    go candice go!

  11. #29
    Registered User

    Sep 2007
    Brisbane
    5,729

    4 -6 mins but less painful now

    I forgot to research - when should I let the obs break my waters? Not before transition?

  12. #30
    Registered User

    Dec 2007
    Sunny Qld
    14,682

    I dunno about your last question - but all the best girl!! You can DO this.

  13. #31
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    Euroa, Victoria
    438

    OOOHHH how exciting!!!

    Re: waters. They tried to break mine when I got to hossy. I was 7cm. They couldn't break them easily and my midwife wouldn't let them try anymore. In the end they didn't break until I started pushing.

    HTH

    All the best!

  14. #32
    Registered User

    Mar 2007
    6,979

    Yup walking and on your hands and knees, I had a posterior labour and the worst thing was that nothing except standing up was comfortable. Lots of labour vibes to you darl. xox
    :yeahthat: same here... DD was posterior and I couldn't sit down not even to pee!!
    just walking around was all I could do and swaying side to side standing up..... hip swaying...

    Good luck Candice I am SOOOOOOOOOO EXCITED for you.... it is such an exciting thrilling time... enjoy it babe

    Candice - just go with your body and try not to "THINK" if that makes sense.... it will all happen in good time.... trust your body matey
    If you want to lie down lie down if you want to sit , sit, if you need to move your hips, move your hips... go with your body. your body tells you what it needs.

  15. #33
    Registered User

    Jan 2009
    hiding under my desk!
    1,432

    you dont need to let them break them.. they will break by them selves when they need to.
    rest if you can but if its to uncomfy dont...
    walking or even weeding will be great for getting things happening(do the weeding on all 4s)

  16. #34
    Registered User

    Jul 2004
    5,756

    Dont let them break your waters if you dont want them to. Mind didnt break until after Orson's head was out!

  17. #35
    Registered User

    Feb 2009
    2,031

    With a posterior bub, I recommend holding onto them until they go themselves! Even if they don't, caul babies are meant to be a sign of luck!

    But if you feel you need them broken, not until 8-9cms I would say. The last couple go mighty quick after that. They broke them at 8cms with Angie and I had her 6mins later.

  18. #36
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber & MPM

    Feb 2007
    Melbourne
    5,462

    You're doing so well Candice . Still praying for you...

1234 ...