Honestly hun, breech vaginal births are rarely practised these days. would you rather a skilled obstetrician preform a csection that theyve done 1000 times before to get your baby here the safest way that they know how or let you attmept a VB and not know what to do if something went wrong?

Its all well and good to say oh but noone will let me, its not that they dont want you to, its because they just havent had the practice in the situation.
At the end of the day, so long as your baby gets here safely, what does it matter how it gets here? you will have gotten something that some of us can only dream about, a take home baby.

You are fortunate, you know its most likely going to happen, you have to time prepare and arm yourself with knowledge, and knowledge is power.