Bah.. I wouldn't listen to her!!! HOW awful of her to try and get you to doubt your ability. You truly don't know unless you are there - in the moment - and THEN you will see what this baby wants to do.

I was told - by midwives AND my OB AND a growth scan - that my bubs were going to be over 10 pound and MASSIVE basically.

DS - 8 pound 2.5 oz
DD - 8 pound 11.5 oz

They were both REALLY LONG - and SKINNY.

So that could be what she is feeling - long limbs. Its not uncommon for a tall guy to have tall babies. both mine are always off the growth charts for height - because their dad is 6 foot 7 - even though I'm only 5 foot 5 (and a half).

I wouldn't even listen to her. She's an idiot. JMO of course!!! lol