I have been lucky and had 2 pretty awesome births, although both quite different (first time I had an epidural, second was a waterbirth). But, next time I will
- remember to take photos, or have someone with me who's job it is to remember - both times DH and I forgot.
- not invite DH's family straight after the birth. I love having my Mum & sisters come, but DH's whole family came and well and truly outstayed their welcome.