Last time we sent around a text to everyone saying something like " C and N are proud to announce the arrival of S, MOther and baby are doing fine dad cannot wipe the smile off his face. We will let people know when we are ready for visitors" ... I caved to a bit of pressure for the two mothers and one SIL to see DD the day she arrived I was buggered and some of my requests while they were there were ignored. Needless to say THIS time I will be a lot firmer with my requests and if people ignore me while I am in hossy I will happily take my baby off whoever is holdingher and ask for the nurses to take her to the nursery (mums and bubs only LOL).
Anyway sorry for the mini hi jack. Let people know before hand where possible, just be ready for some backlash. When bub actually arrives you will probably need to reinforce your rules but those that matter won't mind, those that mind don't matter .
Nae x x x x
Last edited by NaeNae; September 28th, 2011 at 02:58 PM.
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