Hey, thanks Angel for replying, I was hoping someone would reply.

I guess I'm focussing on him right now and not expecting to learn more myself after two vaginal births, but I'm sure I can. It helps that there's sections just for support people and that's what I can show him.

I was getting concerned about him going in it as we had to go into a delivery suite on the weekend, and he saw that they had pay TV in there. He keeps talking (seriously) about how we can watch pay while I'm in labour and it will help distract me. I plan to go drug free again this time. I've told him that the TV won't make an ounce of difference and I'll likely scream about the noise being on and I won't handle him being distracted by a TV, but he's saying to me 'we'll just try it'.

LOL, I don't think he realizes how painful it is and how I will be. So I think we need a bit of help, obviously my verbal preparing isn't working.