Oh MG, I'm so sorry you had such a tough time with the birth

All I know is that with my OB, and I am having a VBAC, I don't have to be monitored constantly. they will monitor me intermittently, so that I can still shower, move around etc. So I am very happy about that.

As for your pelvis size, have you heard of the pink kit? It is a great resource & covers things that can help you prepare & find the best positions for your particular body.

And don't forget to shop around for your OB Find one that is on your wavelength.