Raven - believe me, its only made me more motivated now to prove them wrong - because I'm such a stubborn PITA that I will do it just to shove it up their noses.
Mel, that sounds so much like me it's not funny!
Then you can turn around and tell them that it was soo much easier than a c/s, then see what they say!
I think they may be a bit jealous that you are researaching and have a plan, and a supportive DH!

Can't wait to hear all about your VBAC

Nic