i second Nelle's words..
For me, with DD i felt very out of control and unsure of my emotions for the 1st week or so and then after a really good cry and chat with a close friend i felt like i was going to be ok.. So when pregnant with DS i was expecting it and after i had him i didnt cry or feel like i did after DD.. dont know why, but i felt alot better emotionaly after i had him.. weird how your emotions work!

All the best !