DS1:
Did you use any drugs in your birth?
No
Did you have complications during your birth? 2nd degree tear (very easy recovery)
Did you experience any feelings of dissapointment, disempowerment and traumatisation? Not at all! I was on a serious emotion high from how empowered and successful I felt.

DD:
Did you use any drugs in your birth?
No
Did you have complications during your birth? None
Did you experience any feelings of dissapointment, disempowerment and traumatisation? No

DS2:
Did you use any drugs in your birth?
Panadeine Forte at the very beginning of contractions.
Did you have complications during your birth? Bubs seemed to be a bit stuck and was holding on to my pelvis, which was almost unbearable pain.
Did you experience any feelings of dissapointment, disempowerment and traumatisation? I felt some disempowerment from not being able to push bubs out like the other 2 but had it been my first birth, I probably would've been quite happy with it.