Hi there!

I aggree with what Trillian has said.

Aim for a VB and if towards the end of the prenancy you are still feeling nervous, go with what your heart is telling you to do.

Have you debriefed from your first birth?

I thinking debriefing from any birth is important whether it was traumatic or not or if you are the birthing woman, midwife or doula. A traumatic birth can leave so much stigma.

I would highly reccommend a Doula aswell. Doula's can help you work through any trauma from previous births. She can also help you prepare a calm, safe environment for you to birth into.

Have you considered a homebirth? With a lot of women the trauma from birth is associated to the hospital. Giving birth in the safety of your home is a powerful experience. It may be the healing that you need.

Also, go and visit the girls in the traumatic birth forums. Its great to have a rally of support from women who have been through the same thing as you.

I wish you all the best and really hope you find the love and support you deserve.

You have made the first step, reaching out for help. It can only get easier from here on!

Good luck!
xxoo