Hi Babybino

First off, congratulations. Lots of sticky vibes for you.

I think you are being very reasonable, not only will you need the time for you, DH and baby to get used to being a family, you will also be very tired from all the disturbed nights and the last thing you will want to deal with is a string of people staying with you either trying to 'help' or demanding your attention.

You stick to what you want and don't let them make you feel bad about it, this is your time and you need to do what is right for you and they should understand that.

Good luck and I hope everything sorts itself out for you soon

*hugs*