Avoid questions anyway that are too open - rather give a choice "juice or water?", "move to bathroom or chair?", choice of 2 CDs.
That is perfect. Will be telling my DH that one. If there's one thing I can't do.. it's make decisions.. i was like that in the first tri.. which is one main reason I was so miserable, having to decide what to eat etc. We've learnt our lesson on that front.. don't ask me to make decisions on what I want! I'm a multiple choice kinda person

In fact... I might even put that in my birth plan! since I'm struggling for things to put in it.. offer me choices.. don't just ask what I need.

Excellent.. keep this topic going