Lol, I did the last 2 with no pain relief & intend to do the same this time. I certainly don't regret it!
I also have babies to care for my babies. I really think she only had this one to keep her DP & family happy. Well thats the feeling I'm starting to get anyway. She seems happy, like no pnd or anything, but she's different to first time around. She just doesn't see why the baby should be solely her responsibility I guess. Even though her DP has taken over everything else, on top of working so she can just worry about the baby. I mean everything. He cooks dinner, gets DD1 up & ready for school & takes her in, cleans, washes. Everything. What he can't do, her mum does. What I'd give for half the support she has!

ETA - Thats what I think Leesa. It just doesn't make sence to me. But I think maybe she feels that there is no need to go through all that when you don't have to. Maybe she did ask & they denied her & thats the problem.