You said you don't think it's pnd but I don't know if I woulddiscount that yet. After reading the posts I can see how she may have been anxious to have another baby maybe memory of first labor feeling overwhelmed to have 2 kids and then her way of dealing with the anxiety of the labor was taken away from her she may be feeling some resentment towards either her family or even the babe (even though it had no say in it) sounds crazy but depression can be