Hi I'm so sorry that u feel so disappointed about ur c-section.

I still feel entirely ripped-off about my emergency c/s one yr down the track. I'm forever grateful that my dd and myself were saved from a life threatening situation - but cannot get over the fact that i was not able to have a 'proper' birthing experience I'm hoping that with #2 i'll be able to have a VBAC and that maybe i'll begin to feel better about my c/s.

Physically u will heal and those pains will cease - but emotionally and mentally i don't know if u'll ever entirely get over it. C/s aren't the natural way to have bubs so maybe that's why we feel so let down afterwards...but on the bright side we are so fortunate to have skilled surgeons and obs that can provide us with c/s to ensure the safe arrival of our precious bubs.

I really hope u begin to feel more positive about ur c/s