pz - na she isnt quiet but hungry - on the rare occasions she does squark its about half an hour or so before she is due for a feed so i know its not that. she squarks if she has wind too but i know the difference..

we didnt have an easy birth - she was stuck, i was cut open.. of course im emotional.

i find when someone tells me that 4 hourly feeds is too long and that im not feeding enough is judgement.
im a mother of a 11 day old ffs - i dont need that.

i just spoke to my nurse and she told me to change the feeds to 15 mins, so she just pretty much confirmed what dh and i discussed.

thankyou to everyone who said im doing a good job though, even if you dont agree with what im doing, it means alot, and i have taken your advice on board..
im just trying to figure out whats best for my baby girl.
my way of thinking is that if she is putting on a good amount of weight i must be doing the right thing and she put on 81grams at her last weigh in and i got told that was good so i must be doing something right..