I think the confusion has come about because on one hand you are saying you're happy to continue feeding your daughter as long as she wants, but on the other hand you're talking about making a decision to drop the number of feeds she has - if you're honestly going to feed her as long as *she* wants then shouldn't *she* be the one deciding when to drop that feed? If she is indeed losing interest then she'll stop that feed of her own accord - no intervention required from you.