Sorry, I wasn't going to post here, I also think this was thread may've been to cause trouble, but I have a question...
You feel comfortable having your husband feed from you with young children in the house, yet you aren't comfortable with those same children seeing you use a breast pump?
Do you feel comfortable with your children seeing their father do this? I personally hope not, but I don't understand why pumping would be more of an issue?
I think the OP has contradicted herself in a lot of ways and the other posters have just been seeking clarification. That could be read as being judgmental or could also be out of genuine concern given some of the things the OP has said.
Without those answers, judgements can't really be made can they? And the OP has decided that they don't want to respond any further, so I guess we'll never know...
I don't feel BB is the place for this kind of post. The post was not written because of concern over BF her DD but concern over BF her husband and in turn I feel it belongs on an adult nursing site (if this exists) or a site where ppl indulge in this kind of behaviour not here.
I agree it is sexualising BF and that's fine if you want to do that but I just think it shouldn't be done on here.
I think this post was written to cause a stir.
I call Troll.
I agree that a pregnancy and parenting forum is not really the place to post about a sexual fetish (and it is a fetish). I couldn't give a toss what two consenting adults do in their own bedroom, but as a previous poster said - a few of the OP's comments made me feel distinctly uncomfortable because of the language and tone used, as opposed to the content. I had a mental image of a bloke sitting behind the keyboard getting off on the responses.
The original poster states that there is little information available elsewhere, but go ahead and google 'adult nursing' and you will find there are ample sites catering to this particular fetish - BB is not the most appropriate forum.
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or could also be out of genuine concern given some of the things the OP has said.
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