I have been reading these forums for some time and chose not to participate because I had nothing to contribute, or was already able to find answers to past questions I had over the years. Yes, I only just joined a few days ago because I wanted some help in facing a unique situation and found little to nothing online to guide me. As for the name milkmaid, this is the playful name my husband gave me and was the first thing I thought when asked for a username.

Most responses are starting to head down the path of analysis, trying to see more in my comments and motivation than was ever meant to originally exist. I have already tried to express my priorities as clear as I am able, that being the welfare of my daughter, but the challenges continue and I suspect this due almost entirely to the underlying theme of my post.

As for being a troll, I will now choose not participate any further in this thread or others, this is probably the best option considering this accusation and I consider myself mature enough to walk away rather than have the negatives bring everyone including myself down. Thank you to those who took their time to offer genuine and understanding advice.