My now 13.5 month old girl hasn't grown in about 3 months since she was 10 months old. She has tumbled from 40%ile to -40%. I haven't taken her for her 12 month check up yet because we just returned from a loooooong holiday overseas where we all had a fabulous time and my daughter had a ball, but she wasn't overly fond of the food so I fed her puree and bananas (she is a BLS baby).

She is usually a massive eater and is breastfed, but I've been worried about my milk supply for a long time. However, she doesn't drink well from any kind of bottle or cup everything ends up down her shirt, and will really only drink water (she'll sip milk in a sippy cup but won't drink much).

I'm feeling ill at the thought of what the doctor will say at her checkup. Is there something wrong?

Also, she started walking with a walker at Easter and this many months later she still isn't walking, it's like ever since then she's just stopped developing. I can't understand what's going on. She's bright, lovely, active, loudly spoken, entertaining, gorgeous, witty... but physically she has stopped developing and I feel like the worst mother in the world but I don't know what to do.