sure - you can't make some feel something, but through thoughtless (or deliberately ignorant) words & actions, you definitely set the path to a particular response. Like alluding to (or stating) that a mother is inferior or her parenting techniques are damaging because her choice is different to yours. There's not many people that could shrug that off.

Be gentle with people from that other side of the fence... your grass may be so tall & green, you can't see their story & hardships.

But as I won't know what I can and can't achieve with BF for another few weeks, I guess I'm unqualified to contribute. I will bow out right here (until next month!).