I think you said this perfectly Cailin, why not have it as a normal part of pg, I especially like your sugesstion of having a LC that discusses breastfeeding as part of your regular hospital visits,
I am going through an OB for this baby but I still have a couple of visits with a midwife so why not a visit especially for an LC that way it would be a regualr check up and incorperate BF too I think that is a fantastic idea and I hope that one day they do that, that will most certainly bring education up on BF.
I think advertising is also important, BF is not considered by general public as the normal thing to do, its supposed to be hiden in a closet or a room wayyyyy down a hall in the shopping centre, people are getting offended and making horrible awful remarks to the women who do BF and I think that this needs to stop, if BF was considered the normal thing by society and not a little secret you do behind closed doors then I feel more women would be comfortable feeding in public, I know when BF my DS I would never go out unless I knew he would not want a feed and even then I would only leave the house for a very short time.
IK I am guilty of stopping BF with my DD because it hurt to much, and I think it was because of lack of education as I did not know it was going to be like that, even after BF my DS for 2 months ( I stopped for different reasons ) I still thought it must have been 'me' and something I was doing and it probably was I dont think she was attaching properly, I just wanted to say that it broke my heart to stop with in the first week with her, and I had many abusive phone calls to make sure I didnt forget the horrible thing I was doing to my newborn child, it was not an easy decission for me, but in my case I felt it was better to stop becasue of the resentment I was feeling toward my baby girl, I so understand what you are saying and yes I think that some people do turn to formular to early but I think it really depends on the circumstances and reasons behind it, and again education is the key here in most cases, if I had felt that i was not taking up precious time and that I was in the way I may have asked for more help, and I think what Cailin said is spot on
ETA: I will be giving it my absolute best effort this time, I wont give up unless there is a medical reason of course, but you see having BB as a place of support and referance I am now more educated htan before I had the attitude that breast milk and formular were much the muchness and felt no need to force the issue with myself but now i do know and again its an education thing for me, I have learnt so much in the past couple of years, and i am really excited this time about giving it my all.






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