That's sweet of your sister BG!

Thanks for the great discussion all! So many good points, particularly on how much we take for granted about the safety of abm (let alone so many other things we consume).
I would donate ebm and use it. I would also feed another child or let someone else feed my ds in an emergency situation. Beyond that I think I'd feel a bit uncomfortable about it, just cause actually breastfeeding is an intimate act between me and my baby.
So yeah, if anyone out my way needs milk - I am a clean nonsmoker....mind you, I don't actually have a pump.