Sorry you're having such a difficult time Emma

I have had a little bit of stress incontinence. I also had a small prolapse of the vagina after delivery (also forceps). Doc also told me that estrogen is suppressed post birth when breastfeeding, and this weakened the walls of the vagina. I know it's all connected, but I'm not sure estrogen affects the pelvic floor muscles in quite the same way.

In any case, I think you might want to give it a bit more time before deciding, especially if this is your sole reason for giving up breastfeeding - I think it will take a bit of time to right itself even if you stop breastfeeding now.

there are physiotherapists that specialise in pre and post-natal care - perhaps you could find one in your area and get some help. Sometimes it's as simple as not doing the exercises quite right and once you get the right help, things improve out of sight.

Take care of yourself - hope you are getting lots of help around the place