ditch the silicone..enrich your diet and let her suckle .. maybe even dream feeds could help.. express often and give it ti her in a cup.. there is a bottle "adri" is the maker and its a boob, looks like one and feels like one , she has to latch to drink from it . so if she has to latch to it , she might aswell attach to the boob ..

when gab fusses and tugs i find that she has pain and i have to get the wind out of her .. or she has to poop..

i hope this post doesnt sound rude , its not meant to, but i m typing one handed