Firstly, a big hug snowchickie

This first time mum stuff isn't easy is it??

You are doing such a wonderful job perservering with BFing, you know how great it is for your DD, even if it is really testing your patience.

I'm by no means an expert, but I've found with my DD fussing at the breast is when she is hungry and not getting enough milk from me. I went on a diet a couple of weeks ago (I know, not ideal when BFing I found out) my supply dropped dramatically and poor DD was really hungry, she fussed and tugged at the breast - trying to encourage more milk. I got my supply up by expressing after each feed, even if I didn't get much EBM the nipple stimulation increased my supply within a couple of days.

My DD is 3 months old and I feed her every three hours during the day, then at night 11pm, 3am then 7am. She wakes for the 3am and 7am feed, but at 11pm I do a 'dream feed' which may work for you to re-introduce BF to your DD. I get her out of bed when she is asleep, don't wake her, keeps the lights dim, then I offer my breast to her, it may take a minute but she will take it and have a feed in her sleep, then straight back to bed. Perhaps having your DD in such a relaxed state will help her take to the BF? You could also try it at about 3am to increase your supply - I know night feeds aren't fun but it should only take 15 minutes or so.... Short term pain for long term gain is what I tell myself every night!

Keep us updated on your progress!