Tonight DH and I came to a compromise. We have agreed that I will express what I can (expressing much more than we feed DD just to help get my supply re-established and to help it increase), and feed her via bottle. That way we know exactly how much she is getting (which is a great piece of mind for both of us) and she will still be getting the breast milk that I so want her to have.

Sitting here expressing and have already managed to get maybe 5mls from one boob .

Wish me luck ladies