What a fantastic visit I'm glad you feel better about demand feeding your toddler. Reassurance like that can get all that doubt right out of your head and make you feel so much better, can't it. You've just got to go with their level of comprehension.. my DS was fine being told to wait LOL. He seemed to understand the concept of 'not now, later' so that wasn't a huge issue for us.

Enjoy your peaceful household, and find some good movies to put on while you're doing all this feeding