I definitely understand what you mean! My DD is a bit younger (25months) but bed time is taking longer and longer at the breast and there seems a lot more fidgiting. The other night after an hour of it I gently took her off and rubbed her back while she moaned a little till she fell asleep, it is almost like she just couldn't quite get to sleep on the milk anymore? I don't know but at least she is sleeping through the night so I only have to deal with it at bedtime. I think what is pushing me over lately is I have just found out I'm pregnant again so my nipples are super sensitive and she seems to be asking for more day feeds too, not sure if that is coincidence or somehow pregnancy related though?

I go through phases of hoping she weans during the second trimester supply drop and hoping she doesn't... no real advice, must be hard tandem feeding so definitely admire you there