Danni,
I think it's really important to think about what is important for you. As Kelly says it can be difficult if you are a public patient - however, I am assuming you are having an elective c/section so you should have a date by now? If so, you can find out who the surgeon/s is on that day. It is imperitive that you speak with the hospital and be assertive about your needs and wants around your c/section.

Hospitals have policies - so some things will just be NO it's not policy. You will need to decide if you can cope with the no's to some of your requests. If you can't there are options - perhaps it may mean a different hospital or a doula or midwife to be there for your birthing.

Some things that you may think of asking for are: music to be playing, quiet hushed voices, dimmed lights (can be a difficult one but I have seen it!). You may like to request that your baby is lifted straight onto your bare chest. Breastfeed whilst being sutured - baby and you are not separated - again this may require you hiring a midwife/doula to fill this role.

I hope you can acheive the birth that is important for you.