Hi,

My son was born under similar circumstances. I had a episiotomy and still tore 3rd degree down into the muscle around the "back". My DS was born via suction cap due to his heart rate failing during contractions.

Since then ive been recommended to have a C/S for my next baby, for similar reasons as yourself.

Ive been worring and stressing over the birth of this baby before he/she was concieved. I found my last labour and birth very traumatic (Not too mention the risks of faecal incontinence.)and therefor have booked myself in for a C/S. (with the option to change my mind) I did however find as much info on the subject from both sides. Mostly talking to mothers who have gone through similar situations. It helped me find my own choice.. what felt right for me.

I have found not a great deal of support for this choice. I actually don't tell many people due to the snide looks or remarks.

Good luck with your decision. One way or the other.. enjoy the birth!