Barb, Zander was born on Sunday 1.30am & didn't get his bath until the Wednesday.

Geez Toots it sounds like you had some shocking midwifes as well. You'd think after all the stuff you went through they'd be a bit nicer. As for where Jacob was the first night, I'm not 100% sure where Zander was either. I think he was with the midwives - they kept the bubs with them behind the desk, not in an actual nursery - but am not totally sure.

Christy I think you should send the letter too. In our maternity ward there were forms for Midwife Of The Year, I've filled one out for the midwife I had in delivery. She was great - was with me from 7am-7pm (her shift finished at 3pm) and the came to visit us the next two days.

So who else had their hubby/partner with them? I know Dee's Mark was allowed to stay & by the sounds Tootie's hubby was there... Aaron was only allowed to be there in normal visiting hours. The night before we left I had the baby blues pretty bad & Zander was screaming so he asked to stay a bit longer & they wouldn't let him - it's not like he wouldv'e bothered anyone, I had a single room.