Hon I think de-brief would be very helpful, and Im sure your OB would help go through it with you, I never asked mine in hindsight it may have helped me a lot and I should have done so. My OB and I did discuss my DD1 emergency c/s when I was pregnant with DD2, but we didnt go into details, all I said was I do not want to go through that again so elect c/s was decided due to my complications I wouldnt be able to give birth naturally. So I guess I got my answers then. I guess it depends why they decided emergency c/s, was your baby in disstress, what your body in distress? did the baby get stuck in my pelvic bone and couldnt move like mine? so many questions I can understand why you would like to de-brief. Wishing you all the best, and hope you get some answers xxx