megan, I am having a c/s, but i dont have much choice, have a giant baby and a small pelvis, so the two don't really mix.

are your fears of a vag labour your only reason for considering a c/s or are there medical reasons involved as well. you don't have to answer, i'm just curious that's all, not judgemental.

i am the other way around i am terrified of having a c/s and just wanted to have a vag labour - would be good if we could've swapped!